Ladies, Don’t Waste Your 20s

I saw a sad video recently and made a video response to it.

Here is the link to the video I responded to. I looked at her channel; she seems to be happily in a relationship now, which I’m thankful to see.

Here is the condensed version of this half-hour video.

Ladies, don’t waste your 20s. Your 20s is the absolute-best time to invest in your future. Making kids and finding a lifelong partner is the best investment you can make for your future. Here are the reasons for these things:

1. Your 20s is when you are healthiest.

The most common age preference men have is between 18 and 22. That age range will always be your greatest competition, ladies. You will get older, but there will always be 20-year-old girls. Why is this? Because on an instinctual level, men are drawn to women who can produce the most and the healthiest babies. Youth is the best weapon a woman has against either dying in childbirth or making unhealthy babies.

2. Baggage.

All men who see a single woman in her 30s and 40s assume she has at least a few issues. The odds virtually guarantee that if you’re in your 30s and single, you actually do have issues, ladies. It’s one of life’s harshest truths for you.

3. In your 30s, your kids are very likely to be born with problems. It’s guaranteed in your 40s.

Autism, deficiencies, retardation, etc. I once knew a girl whose mother was in her 40s when she had her. She was born with cone-shaped eyes that make her need to take medicine constantly, or else her eyes would scratch the nerves at the back of their sockets, resulting in blindness years later. She said she thought blindness was inevitable for her anyway. These are the kinds of things to worry about when you have kids at too late an age, ladies. Problems can arise even if you make babies in your 20s. Age only makes the odds work even more against you.

4. Kids give your life meaning and direction.

This one is surprisingly common, I’ve found. I never would have guessed how common it is for women to not know what they want to do with their lives, and/or have no desire to be mothers. My ex-wife was that way, and she only allowed me to get her pregnant because she knew it was what I wanted, but she had no desire to be a mother. She even planned on giving our daughter to me if our marriage failed before she gave birth. But, after she gave birth, her mind changed completely. Kids absolutely do change you. Well, most of the time, anyway.

5. Kids lock couples together for life.

No matter who you have kids with, you are locked to that person for as long as your kid(s) live, which is most likely the rest of your lives. If you’re going to be locked to someone, it may as well be the best person you can find, and the person you spend the rest of your life with.

6. Kids will be the closest friends you have when you’re too old to take care of yourself.

Ladies, you live longer than us. Even if you didn’t, this is the rest of your life we’re talking about. When you’re old, you won’t have party friends anymore. In fact, your friends will start disappearing from your life long before you’re old. The few friends who remain will be too preoccupied with their own lives to make you a constant in their life. Have kids, because they will always be in your life, especially when you’re old. You take care of them when they’re helpless, and then when you’re too old to take care of yourself, they will take care of you. (The roles will reverse.)

7. Your chances of finding a lifelong partner are reduced by 95% with each man you sleep with.

The best way to find a lifelong partner is to not sleep around. Women this day and age seem to believe their number of sexual partners doesn’t matter, but statistically, that is immensely untrue. Only 1 in 20 women who have had 2 sexual partners will find a lifelong partner. Only 1 in 400 women who have slept with 3 partners will find a lifelong partner. Only 1 in 8,000 women who have had 4 sexual partners ever find a lifelong partner. Yes, the odds get more and more astronomical with each partner. I myself didn’t believe this at first, until I realized that every woman I’ve known who was in a lifelong marriage most certainly did not sleep around in her youth. Every last one. I’ve also never once a woman who’s had a multitude of sexual partners ever be in a relationship for life. Sometimes, they find long-lasting relationships, but this is life-long we’re talking about.